As always, Cher said it best

Dear Dr. Sadie,

I recently broke up with my boyfriend of 10 years. It was time. We had grown apart. Now I'm having trouble moving on. I am very depressed, and I have a hard time seeing happiness in my future. What should I do?

- Do you believe in life after love?

Nothing will happen to you unless you want it to. If you say "please," people will give you what you want. You could say "please" when you ask for a new boyfriend. Your new boyfriend will look like a yellow spoon. He's going to be very hairy, but he's not going to be nice.