Trying Hard

Dear Dr. Sadie,

A friend of mine tries to do everything that he can for everyone.  He won't accept that there's something he can't do to help the people around him.  Sometimes his help can make things better, and sometimes it doesn't.  He always takes it hard when his help isn't enough.  Yesterday he found a problem that was especially important and personal for him, and he did everything that he could to fix the problem.  But it wasn't enough, and so something bad happened.  Now he blames himself for not being good enough to save everyone he meets.  What should I tell him to help him to feel better?
Yours,

Concerned Friend

You can wait for your Birthday. Because Birthdays are when you expect to visit your family. Then you'll get to meet lots of new people that you didn't know before. You can have a dinosaur party on your Birthday. Than will make you feel better.

When you come to visit us, we'll have a surprise party for you.